Frank M. Ahearn

What To Do About Sextortion

Sextortion Help

Think Before You Act

If You Pay

The blackmailer will try to bleed you dry.

If You Do Not Pay

They may or may not release the material.

Assess The Situation

What do they know about you? 

Slow Down

Think with you head, not your emotions.

Short Term Action

Shut down your online information.

Long Term Action

Damage control.

What Do They Know?

What They Know Determines The Strategy


  • Did you send a video or photo?
  • Did you involve yourself on camera?
  • Is it a face photo?
  • Is the background identifiable?
  • Do they know your name?
  • Do they have your mobile number?
  • Do they have your email address?
  • Do they know your social media?
  • Do they know your employment?
  • Do they know your family?


Combating Sextortion Through Avoidance

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Privacy Consultation (SE)

$275.00

Pay with PayPal or a debit/credit card

Most sextortionist want a quick payment, and so they promise they will destroy everything after the funds are received. Paying a sextortionist never works out in your favor, and it will only be a matter of time before you have no choice but to say no. However, there are right and wrong ways to say no. 


I embrace the strategy of avoidance, which gives me time to assess the seriousness of the scammer. Plus, it brings us in the direction of you not saying no but squeaking out of the situation without sending money.


After you prepay the consultation, email me at FA@FrankAhearn.com and let me know how you want to communicate, email, phone, WhatsApp, or video. 



Damage Control

Digital Disinformation

Sextortionist do not always go away, much of the times they lay low, and resurface. Therefore, you must consider long term protection and damage control. Especially is they have information like your mobile number, email address, social sites, employment, or information about your friends and family. The strategy of digital disinformation protects you from potential disaster.  

Frank M. Ahearn helps with sextortion.

Privacy Expert

Frank M. Ahearn

I have quite a unique background. Initially, I was a skip tracer (finds people) and social engineer (extracts information), and from there, I began disappearing people who needed to vanish. I am the author of The New York Times Bestseller, How to Disappear: Erase Your Digital Footprint, Leave False Trails, And Vanish Without A Trace. 


My background is rooted in deception, which has made me an expert in combating sextortionist, and online blackmailers. If you want to learn more about me vist www.FrankAhearn.com or www.FrankAhearn.de

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